Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Rejection !


I have seen many dreams being made and broken over the past few months and somehow I can't stop wondering at the irony of it all. Well,it all began with the CAT and with B-school results pouring in day in and day out,friend circles are a melange of happy,sad,introspective,satisfied and dissatisfied faces. I guess crucial junctures in life are always very torturous and the most frustrating are those with the 'x-factor',who never face rejection anywhere and find a smooth sailing all through .

Whatever the case , but I strongly believe that at times there is very little difference between people who get in and those left out.At the end of the day it is lady luck which rules the roost. Your presence of mind at that time, the kind of panel you face or the group you are in. In fact , I have seen some very arbitrary selections with some very deserving,intelligent people not making the final cut.

"I had four calls and I couldn't convert even one.I have no expectations from anywhere now"...its heartbreaking to see such an unfair face of life but I guess the scenario of competitive exams in India will always be like this , some getting through in their very first attempt and some unfortunate others wasting precious years of their life,in some cases chasing a lost cause.

Tell me whats more important---Google,Microsoft, Lehmann brothers,IIM BLACKI .... I think there is something far more important ...

" I,me,myself and my life which is only once and should be enjoyed to the hilt,no matter the number of failures I face .. maybe I can be something else - a dancer, a travel writer,an interior designer,a journalist..come on,if I have come into this world,I have to be bonkers good at something! "

Success is a very relative term and its your attitude which determines how high you rise in life. Exams can never be the judge of the caliber of any person--the irony is that often we spend so long pondering over a closed door that we refuse to look at the one thats open!!


posted by Munna / Rakesh @ 10:06 AM,


5 Comments:

At March 19, 2008 at 5:54 PM, Blogger Big Foot said...

So true! But you know what, over the years I've seen so many of my friends who are/were good at so many arts and skills like - sports, artistry, photography, writing - succumb to peer pressure ... and are now wasting their lives in some meandering SW job ...  

At March 22, 2008 at 3:08 AM, Blogger Roshini Thyagaraj said...

Completely true da.... tht success is relative... only u can decide whether u r successful or not...n ya no exam can test the real ability of a person...  

At March 23, 2008 at 3:20 PM, Blogger Pankaj said...

itni senti entry......redsss....sab theek thak na.....kis ladki ne reject kiya tujhe[:P][:P]...naam bol tu bas naam bol.....ma-bhen kar denge....
jokes apart....entry seems true in every angle.....  

At March 23, 2008 at 4:09 PM, Blogger Pankaj Prasoon said...

This comment has been removed by the author.  

At March 23, 2008 at 4:10 PM, Blogger Pankaj Prasoon said...

He Buddy seems like you have hit the precise twine at the right instance and its evident that you have put down one of the bitter truth, well that’s the irony of life and we all have to live by it.
The paragraph just has an ideal ending awesome mate ...you are just getting better by better with every post of yours,