Too much love will kill you!

I have always given one piece of advice to anybody who told me they're in love which I learnt from some not so good experiences, and I ofcourse didn't want my loved ones to suffer...(nah actually I know nobody listens to anybody but advice is for free and its cool timepass!). Never loose yourself when in love, make the other person a part of your life and not your life completely! Coz god forbid if the other goes away, going gets real tough !! Also, how much of each other can you bear all the time? You've got to have a life of your own to keep everything going! I know its difficult to follow, but efforts have to be made, coz its important to love yourself first and then only can you really love the other one !!

To quote from Ayn Rand's Fountainhead, 'To say "I love you" one must first be able to say the "I."

posted by Munna / Rakesh @ 7:00 PM, ,

Seeing is believing !

Have you guys ever seen a pack of dogs chasing a car? Well I'm sure you have! Once one of my little cousins asked her dad, why do they do it? He said most of the times it's because a similar car might have ran over one of their fellow dogs and they wish to take revenge for it.

And I was really amazed that how can they just assume it's the same car, just because it has the same shape? But now I know, they don't assume, for them "seeing is believing"!

And I guess this is exactly why human lives are so complex. We don't believe in what we see, we don't trust what is told to us, we rather assume, and we lie to ourselves all the time, more than we lie to the world.

Some of us tell ourselves that the love showered on us isn't true, because we don't deserve so much of it, when the truth is, we don't see who we really are.

We lie about our lovers, and that they love us much more than we love them, and that they would never leave us.

We lie about what we can or cannot achieve because it is assumed if nobody else could do it, neither can we!

We lie about how our parents have no idea of our well being, all they care about is their issues simply because we can't see what they see.

We lie to ourselves that we are unhappy because we don't have what others do, only because we never see the smile and the calm on our own faces.

But at times I think lying is good, because we also tell ourselves that tomorrow will be a better day, even if we can't see it, because the hope it gives us is more powerful than any truth we will ever know.

So I guess I will just let the dogs be, sometimes not seeing and believing is great too, keeps us alive! :)

posted by Munna / Rakesh @ 4:05 PM, ,